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Mending the fence with my man.

At seven o’clock in the morning, I noticed I had a message. The message was informing me that our cows were out in the neighbor’s yard.

I told Tim to go around the backside of the cows, and round them up, while I went to the shared gate to call “Hey cows” and entice them with apples. Well…my citified/becoming countrified husband ended up riding up, in The Beast, behind me, therefore instigating the cows to halt approaching me, and retreating into the “hitchhiker weeds” and pines on the other side of the fence. Oh, Tim. (Lesson learned by all.)

Finally, Tim withdrew, and I walked around the backside of the two cows, herding them back onto our side of the fence.

Tim went to the local feed store to purchase barbed wire, and went inside the house.

Working our way home.

Working our way home.

While he was gone, those crazy cows escorted themselves back into those weeds.

This time, we had a system. Success, again, for retrieving the cows.

I’m quite sure this fence needs to be completely repaired soon, but in the meantime, Tim and I repaired the weak sections of the fence with our newly purchased barbed wire.

When our task was complete, and we left the pasture, those silly cows were walking the fence scoping out our repair job. They appeared to be trying to find another weakness in the fence so that they could, God only knows why, revisit new ground.

This whole scenario reminded me of how sneaky Satan is doing the same thing with us.

He is in search of our weakness, so that he can cause us to stumble. Even more so…he wants to steal, kill, and destroy us. (John 10:10)

This is nothing new. Since the VERY beginning of time, Satan has tried to, and often succeeded in, getting his claws around us.

Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” Genesis 3:1

Friend, be on guard. Don’t permit the devil to “hitchhike” his way onto you.  Ask God to reveal any weakness within you, and allow Him to repair them. He will make you strong and secure.

Sure, even when you (a Christian) are secure in the hand of God, Satan is always lurking for that dangling toe or hand to grab. But, you need to remember…NO ONE will snatch you from His hand. Stay close to God.

I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. John 10:28

Seriously??? Those pesky hitchhikers.

Seriously??? Those pesky hitchhikers.

Blessings to you and yours,



tool“I’m just a tool.”

Jesus was a carpenter while He was a young man on earth. According to the dictionary, a carpenter is a worker who builds or repairs structures or their parts. How fitting for the occupation of Christ. He built and repaired wooden structures in His early years, and Christ still does that with us today.

Yep, we are all broken. Christ can repair us, make us new, and build us to be a strong assembly for Him.

In a carpenter’s toolbox, there are various tools to be used for specific tasks. Just like each tool in the toolbox has a precise duty, so do we.

The other day, while refinishing an old church pew, I noticed the screws that were attaching the hymnal shelf had a square opening. Not your ordinary Phillips or Flathead screw driver was needed for this mission, but a Square-Recess driver.

I glanced at it and thought to myself, “We probably don’t have one of those. I don’t think I’ve ever used that type of screwdriver in my lifetime.”

Low and behold, hanging ever so neatly on my husband’s tool rack was the exact type of screwdriver needed to accomplish this task.

God has given each of us spiritual gifts. Some folks may have talents that are quite visible and often used or seen by others, while many others have God-given-gifts that are subtle.

Whatever special talent God has bestowed upon you, use it. Use it to the glory of God. Appreciate the talents of others, and embrace yours.

Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 1 Peter 4:10

“I’m just a tool.”

Those are words that I’ve uttered numerous times when others have complimented me on an ability that God has given to me. It is not me who creates the journal entries, through everyday circumstances. It is God within me. (Thank y’all for your precious comments, and to God be all the glory. I’m truly humbled. I’m definitely not an eloquent writer, I just type what God lays upon my heart.)

You are a tool! Allow God to use you for His glory.

When the Sabbath came, He began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were amazed. “Where did this man get these things?” they asked. “What’s this wisdom that has been given him? What are these remarkable miracles he is performing? Isn’t this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren’t his sisters here with us?” Mark 6:2-3 (Jesus’ hometown folks knew of Him, but didn’t really know Him. I pray that you will truly know Christ and love Him with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength.)

For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.  Romans 12:4-8

As I was about to type this journal entry, my dear lifelong school friend, Constance Ingram Mitchell, posted these words:

“Choose to be a tool for God representing what is good. Choose NOT to be a toy for the enemy representing evil and negativity.”

How fitting! Be a tool, not a toy. I love it!

Have a blessed day!

Love to you and yours,


‘Tis the season!

Some may say…”Tis the season:

  • To be jolly
  • To be thankful
  • For football
  • For shopping
  • For eating lots of turkey
  • For Jesus
  • For trying to tolerate family members during the holiday times
  • To put up Christmas décor before we even celebrate Thanksgiving
  • To be patient

Ahhh, patience. That is exactly what God put on my heart to write about today, when suddenly, there was the perfect illustration, right in front of me, on this topic.

I’m driving home. I see the car ahead of me put their brake lights on. Then, there’s a tractor, sluggishly journeying down the road. I didn’t get upset, roll my eyes, take a deep breath, or say anything I shouldn’t say. Nope, I just smiled, laughed, and subconsciously said, “Good one, God.”


God was clear in His instruction when he had Paul pen the words:

I beg you to live the way God’s people should live, because He chose you to be His. Always be humble and gentle. Be patient and accept each other with love.  Ephesians 4:1-2

The adjectives humble, kind, and loving, have been pressing on my heart this season.

Recently, I chose the shortest, non-ten-items-or-less line at the grocery store. It may have been the shortest line, but it was the longest wait.

There were two elderly ladies checking out. The sweet (I could just tell she was sweet by her countenance) lady paying was having trouble finding the correct change and paying for her groceries. The second seasoned citizen was holding the two small bags of purchased items. The cashier and bagboy would glance my way as if to say, “Sorry”. I was in a bit of a hurry, but I was reminded that could be me one day. I will be that dainty, grey-haired lady, who may be holding up the line at the store. When they ladies left, the cashier calmly said, “Sorry. Thank you for waiting.” I smiled and said, “No worries. That may be me one day.”

Thinking of those “seasoned citizens”, I have friends who are currently tenderly reversing the parent/child responsibility. My heart aches for them, and am humbled by their enduring actions. I’m reminded that I’m blessed to have my parents around, and there may come a time when I find myself in the comparable situation as my friends.

It is often difficult to display patience with those we love. They love us! Right? They will forgive us! Right? Hopefully for you as for me, these questions are true, yet…that is not a reason to demonstrate a lack of patience with the ones who love us most, especially our parents. After all they’ve done for us…I’m quite sure my mom and dad (and many other loved ones) had to be tremendously patient with me.

I am NOT going to pray for patience for you. We all know the result of that. But I do want to challenge you to demonstrate the godly character of having patience this season. I’ve heard that it takes six weeks to be consistent in doing something to make it a habit. Well guess what? There are six weeks left in the year! Why not begin today with being patient so you can start the new year off with a great habit, and a godly characteristic that will carry you far in life.

I type the word “patience” in the search section of this website. Sixty-nine! 69 posts regarding patience! I would LOVE to know which is your favorite, or top three. Maybe I should reread, edit, and compile these into a book. Hmmmm. What do you think? Please click on the following link for ALL 69! I even laughed out loud on a few and recalled some good and trying times. Confession…I haven’t read ALL 69 yet. Patience. http://soakinguptheson.com/?s=patience&search=Search

I do pray for many blessings to you and yours, and for you to recognize those blessings, even the ones in disguise.

Love to all,





DSC_0092I’m speaking to a group of students this week, for Great America Teach-In, about traveling and diversity/commonalities among all people. While going through photos of places we’ve visited around the world, I couldn’t help but smile and appreciate all the experiences God has truly blessed me and my family with.

Photos depicted scenes of us living life to its fullest. For example:

  • Bungy jumping in New Zealand, with arms open wide and taking in the magnificent beauty surrounding me (above and below).
  • Walking on a swing bridge beside Victoria Falls in southern Africa on the Zambezi River at the border of Zambia and Zimbabwe. Speaking of the Zambezi River, we had an interesting hike up and down mountains to enjoy white-water rafting down the river, where Tim jumped in to enjoy the cool waters. (Watch out for the crocs!)
  • Riding on a camel’s back, while being in awe of the over 4,500 years old The Great Pyramid of Giza.
  • Paragliding off a mountain, and landing on the beach of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
  • Waking early in the morning to charter a boat to cage dive with great white sharks off Seal Island in Cape Town, South Africa. (Visibility was slim to nothing, so I opted to wait until another trip with impeccable visibility…maybe next summer. Our friends Dan and Paul did get in the cage. That was a priceless memory!)
  • Swimming with whale sharks off the coast of Mexico. Graceful creatures!
  • Freezing our tushes off skiing and tubing down snowy mountains.

Do you see what I mean about living?!! Living life to its FULLEST!   Yet…all these incredible trips-of-a-lifetime didn’t teach me how to truly live.

Well, okay…I totally have learned to take advantage of opportunities in life and be brave, and traveling has definitely taught me to appreciate others and their cultures, and has been a very educational experience too. Yet, again…truly living life to its fullest comes from another source.

In Psalm 119:143-144 we learn what David knows…that when we delight in the Lord, and strive to know Him and His word more and more, that is when we LIVE.

Even though troubles came down on me hard, your commands always gave me delight. The way you tell me to live is always right; help me understand it so I can live to the fullest. (MSG)

Trouble and distress have come upon me, but your commands give me delight.  Your statutes are always righteous; give me understanding that I may live. (NIV)

When I seek to know Christ more through pining the pages of the bible, my heart overflows with joy. This joy penetrates my marrow, and radiates through my words and actions.

The lessons learned, and stories told, in the bible take me further than any plane or boat could carry me.

Paul said it perfectly in Philippians 1:21, “For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. Do you see that? Living means living for Christ!

I want to encourage you to truly live life to its fullest…abundantly with and through Christ! When we strive to become more knowledgeable, and to put a smile on God’s face each day, well…that my friend…will give you a purpose for living and abundant joy.

Life is short.  Get busy living!  Live for God.

Blessings to you and yours,


For further reading on Philippians 1:21, please visit: https://www.gotquestions.org/to-live-is-Christ.html




This precious cow runs the fastest to me, and moos for attention.

This precious cow runs the fastest to me, and moos for attention.

We have two cows in our pasture. When we first received them, they were skittish of anyone who entered, and you could tell they were cautiously sizing any intruder up.

Over time, I would go out and feed the cows. On my way to greet them, I’d holler out, “Hey, cows”. (I know…such original names.) The relationship grew over time. The cows would begin to associate me with food. Now when I walk out to the pasture, sometimes before I even call out, “Heeyy, coowws”, they see me and come running.

Today, I was out in the barn. I guess one of the cattle noticed me working in there, came to the gate, and began mooing in my direction. I had to laugh. No “hey, cows” was mentioned, now they just want to spend time with me. Okay, okay…they really want me to feed them, but I like thinking that they just want me to talk to them.

This scenario reminds me of “The Good Shepherd and His sheep” parable.

In Isaiah 40:11, we read the illustration of the foreshadowing of Jesus Christ. “He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; He gently leads those that have young.”

That’s exactly what Christ does, He tends to us, gathers us in His arms, holds us close to His heart, and gently leads us in the right direction.

In John 10, we hear the parable of The Good Shepherd and His Sheep. Verse 11 Jesus tells us that He is the Good Shepherd, and that He gives His life for us, His sheep. He did! He died for you and me! In verse 14, Christ confirms that He cares for us.

“I am the good shepherd, and the good shepherd gives his life for the sheep… I am the shepherd who cares for the sheep. I know my sheep just as the Father knows me. And my sheep know me just as I know the Father. I give my life for these sheep.John 10:11, 14-15

Much like those cows began associating me with food, and we’ve now built a relationship with one another, that’s how your relationship with Christ can be. Jesus is The Bread of Life. We need Him daily. The more time you spend feeding on His Word, the more intimate your relationship becomes, and you discover that you desire to spend time with Him. You’ll not wait on Him to call out your name, you’ll go running to Him and moo, I mean call out, to Him.cow 2

Are you lost or wondering? Remember Luke 15:3-7:

Then Jesus told them this story: “Suppose one of you has 100 sheep, but one of them gets lost. What will you do? You will leave the other 99 sheep there in the field and go out and look for the lost sheep. You will continue to search for it until you find it. And when you find it, you will be very happy. You will carry it home, go to your friends and neighbors and say to them, ‘Be happy with me because I found my lost sheep!’ In the same way, I tell you, heaven is a happy place when one sinner decides to change. There is more joy for that one sinner than for 99 good people who don’t need to change.

Jesus wants you! You are His delight! Come back to Him.

I pray that you will work on building your relationship with Jesus.

Blessings to you and yours,



Here they come!

Here they come!





I LOVE this photo I captured in Africa.  The elephants cross the river, at the same place, each time they travel.  The sunset...priceless!

I LOVE this photo I captured in Africa. The elephants cross the river, at the same place, each time they travel. The sunset…priceless!

Relationships are like weather we had in Florida the last week of October 2017.

In my hometown, we went from the lowest temperatures being in the low 40s to 60s, to the highs ranging from the 60s to 80s. One night you would have a fire blazing in the firepit or fireplace, to wearing shorts and hydrating yourself throughout the day due to heat. I’m not complaining…I love Florida…yet I would appreciate some Fall weather to linger around for the month of November. (I can’t wait for next week…highs in the 70s, lows in the 50s…perfect!)

No matter the stage/temperature of a relationship you are in, there needs to be godly characteristics exhibit.

No matter the sort of relationship; family, friend, co-worker, or even complete strangers, you may be having an issue in, reveal godly characteristics. Seek God’s guidance.

I currently have three relationships in the forefront of my mind that I’m being specific in my prayer life about. God and I chat about the relationship and the other person. Yet…when He whispered to me, “Pray for YOUR attitude towards this person”, boy-oh-boy have I noticed a peace and a characteristic of grace being portrayed on my end.

According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, grace has several meanings. Three of which are:

  • a virtue coming from God
  • a special favor
  • a charming or attractive trait or characteristic

Richard Blackaby wrote a book titled, Putting a Face on Grace: Living a Life Worth Passing On. I highly recommend you reading it. While reading this book, several instances would come to mind helping me relate to what Blackaby was sharing at various times. He referenced two types of grace; Pseudo grace and Genuine grace. What’s the difference? Read this exert from his book:

Pseudo grace avoids dealing with sin and instead focuses on being “loving.” But showing genuine grace never involves condoning sin. Grace never compromises truth or righteousness. Jesus forgave the woman caught in adultery, but He also commanded her to “sin no more” (John 8:11). Jesus had lunch with the most notorious sinner in Jericho, but right after dessert, Zacchaeus was making amends for his sins by repaying fourfold all those he had wronged (Luke 19:1-10). Genuine grace always draws people towards Christ and His righteousness. Pseudo grace tolerates sin and muzzles those who would speak against it. A loving, graceful response to sin sometimes means caring enough to say the hard thing that may help people understand the consequences of their sin. (Proverbs 27:5-6)


I’m am trying to master genuine grace to others in my life. I know I sure need to be given grace by others, often. I must confess that pseudo grace may be the one being given in one of the relationships. It’s not even that this person is doing anything wrong. They just sometimes annoy me. (Am I alone here, by being annoyed by someone, and they are truly a fine person?) Ugh. That’s when I began praying for MY ATTITUDE.

God showered me with grace. He made my attitude joyful, tolerable towards others, and more loving.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.  Ephesians 2:8-9

God saved me! He saved me by His grace. The “charming or attractive trait” isn’t anything we are born with. It is given by God. Grace is a gift from God.

But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them—yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me. 1 Corinthians 15:10

Paul clearly understood that it wasn’t by his own doing that he became the man that he was…it was through the grace of God. And, that it wasn’t himself who did so much good for others for the sake of Christ…it was God’s grace within him.

Each believer has been saved by God’s grace, and each new Christian has that same grace within them.

Yes, the same power and grace that was in Christ is now in you and me, when we accept Christ as the Boss of our life.

I also pray that you will understand the incredible greatness of God’s power for us who believe him. This is the same mighty power 20 that raised Christ from the dead and seated him in the place of honor at God’s right hand in the heavenly realms.” Ephesians 1:19-20

We just need to access the power and grace that is within us.

Do you need to show some grace to someone today?  I want to encourage you to pray. Pray for others, and especially pray for yourself and your attitude (like I had to do, and am still doing).

I pray that you will allow God’s grace to wash over you, and in return may it overflow onto those around you.

Display grace, and watch God’s abundant joy infiltrate your life.

Blessings to you and yours,




This photo was taken by me dear friend, Dede.

This photo was taken by me dear friend, Dede.

It appears that the phrase, “Go big or go home” is being applied to the evilness that continues to occur in our country.

2017 Las Vegas shooting…worst mass shooting in current US history.

2017 New York…greatest number of lives lost due to being ran over.

2017 Texas…largest mass shooting in Texas history, during a worship service.

2017 Hurricane Irma…most powerful in the Atlantic. (not an evil act of man, just natural devastation)

It breaks my heart to see such destruction being demonstrated around our great nation, and the world.

In the news reports, you hear governors and other public officials commenting on how strong each town or state has been throughout each tragedy. You see hashtags like #texasstrong #floridastrong #keysstrong #newyorkstrong and so many more.

A copious amount of times, those same public officials have openly asked for prayers and for God’s strength, comfort, and peace to be with those victims and their families.

If the evil-doers of the world can “go big or go home” in their acts, then we can do the same in a positive light.

I challenge you to GO BIG in/by:

  • Smiling at others when you walk by them. You may be the smile they need at that moment.
  • Asking someone how they are today, and truly listen for their response.
  • Praying for others to know Christ in a personal way. Be specific. Mention them by name to God. Get on your knees, if you able, and bow humbly before the Lord.
  • Share Jesus with others through your words and deeds.
  • Opening the door, and holding it, for others.
  • When faced with a challenging person, smile and silently pray for them, right in the moment.
  • Doing those random acts of kindness you often hear about.
  • Spending time with God (through His word, listening to Christian music, praying, being involved in your local church, etc,).
  • And on and on

#ChristLoveStrong #LoveBig


“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

All the evil happenings in the world can bring fear to each of us. Please don’t allow fear to cripple you. I serve a God who 365 times in the bible reminds us to not be afraid. He is not a god of fear. Satan, on the other hand, delights in crippling us with horror. Stop! Not today, Satan! Give God your anxieties and know that He can and will conquer them all.

“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8

This verse doesn’t tell us to “Be fearful because Satan is seeking you.” It clearly states to “Be sober-minded; be watchful…”

For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. 2 Timothy 1:7

Praying for our country.


Have a blessed week ahead.




This is how I felt when I received the call from the doctor.

This is how I felt when I received the call from the doctor.

Sigh…Just breathe…Smile…Cry…Relief…Praise the Lord!

That was how I felt last week when I received the news.

Not long ago, I had received a postcard in the mail reminding me that it is that time of year to schedule my appointment.

I called the hospital, made the appointment, and informed them of a possible issue that needed some attention. When I arrived at the lab on the morning of my appointment, I wanted to confirm that my diagnostic mammogram was ordered. The nurse had a puzzled look on her face and said, “Ummm, we only do diagnostic mammos on Mondays and Thursday.”

The doctor had ordered the diagnostic mammogram with a sonogram, yet my appointment was mistakenly scheduled on a Wednesday. The nurse noticed that there was an opening the following morning at 8:00, so I said, “I’ll take it!”

Tim didn’t go with me to the Wednesday appointment, but his schedule allowed him the opportunity to go with me on Thursday. As we were awaiting my tests, the thought did cross my mind, “What if my appointment was rescheduled because Tim needed to be here for support if I were to receive any unwanted news?” A couple of days later, Tim admitted that he had the same thought.

The results informed the doctor that I had a swollen lymph node and about a half inch in size “something” around the same area (I don’t recall the medical term). Both doctors, one from the hospital and my family physician, believed that all was well, but wanted to confirm with a CT-Scan.

The scan was ordered, and we were ready to go on the following Monday. Unfortunately, the timing for my insurance company needing another approval from my doctor, and my physician’s vacation were causing a delay in the scan.

Two weeks later…the CT-Scan was performed.

During the three-week period, many “What ifs?” came to mind.   Even Tim, who NEVER talks about me going before him, had made a comment along the lines of, “I don’t know what I would do if anything happened to you…”

God and I chatted daily, He kept me in the word, yet my writing and sharing was on hold. I was internalizing this entire process. Only a handful (if that) of folks were on the radar about my situation, besides my husband and kids.

While I was meeting with my precious friend, Karen, who is revamping the soakinguptheson.com site (stay tuned), my situation came into our conversation. I mentioned to Karen that if I do not hear from the doctor today by two o’clock, I was calling. The phone rang at 1:15PM. My dear doctor was calling me to let me know that, indeed…all was well. Sigh…Just breathe…Hugs…Smile…Cry…Relief…Praise the Lord!

Tim was out of town when I heard the results, so I texted him. He informed me that that text was what he needed to hear.

When Cole came home from school, I told him how relieved I was. He opened his long arms wide, walked over to me, and gave me a big hug and a huge smile.

I felt like a huge weight had been lifted off me, and my family.

Why? Why do we allow those “what ifs?” to come into our psyche? Oh, yea, probably because WE ARE NOT GOD. We are human. Even when we know that He is in control of everything, the stresses of life can easily oppress us.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27

When Jesus was said He was giving us peace, He didn’t just give us any peace, but HIS peace. A peace dependent on trust. The world’s peace depends on feelings.

“Stand firm, and you will win life. Luke 21:19

“When anxiety was great within me, Your consolation brought me joy.” Psalm 94:19

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7

Friends, troubles and trials will come our way. Anxieties will trap us. Our hearts will be burdened. But…remember:

  • Stand firm in Christ.
  • Turn to God in trouble times and allow His joy to wash over you.
  • Run to God and find rest in Him.
  • Give thanks.

Blessings to you and yours,




Thanks to the ladies who modeled the clothing provided by Cato Fashion.  You were all sassy.  I loved it!

Thanks to the ladies who modeled the clothing provided by Cato Fashion. You were all sassy. I loved it!

Let the Holiday Season begin!

My church has an event each year for the ladies called Holiday Indulgence. Kay Morris, our women’s ministry leader, and her team create a festive atmosphere to start our holiday season off, with a reminder of the reason for the season…Jesus!

A silent auction, displaying themed decorated Christmas trees, acquired over $2,000 for the Lottie Moon Christmas Fund.

Hot tea, punch, and delicious treats are served to each table.

Music, prayer, a time of devotion, and a Christmas craft idea is demonstrated. Since this event began, fourteen years ago, Kay has given me the opportunity to be the emcee of the fashion show. She gives me the official title of “fashion coordinator”. That cracks me up every time.

Giving me the microphone, to speak to over 400 women…you never know what will happen. One thing is for sure, a delightful and fun time is had by all.

In today’s show, I referenced an article regarding dressing modest from gotquestions.org.:

Those whose hearts are inclined toward God will make every effort to dress modestly, decently, and appropriately. Those whose hearts are inclined toward self will dress in a manner designed to draw attention to themselves with little or no regard for the consequences to themselves or others…attitudes of the heart. If a woman’s heart is inclined toward godliness, she will wear clothing that is neither provocative nor revealing in public, clothing that does not reflect negatively upon her personal testimony as a child of God.

As I was reading this article, I could hear ladies agreeing and even some “Aha-ing” the sentiments from the words.

Ladies, and men, we live in a world where “sex sells”. Women often reveal WAY MORE than they need to, leaving very little to the imagination.

Yes, when you wear clothes exposing more body parts than needs to be shown, people (men AND women) look. So, don’t be surprised, or even satisfied, when gawking takes place.

No, we are not to judge. Yet, please remember, when you choose to cloth yourself in attention-drawing clothing, that is exactly what you are doing…drawing attention, warranted or not. Sure, you may appreciate the attention in the moment, but thoughts and even temptations-in-the-mind, often occur in the viewers eyes.

1 Corinthians 6:19–20 reminds us, “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies.”

Your body is not your own. If you have invited Him to be The Boss of your life (and I pray that you have), you have the Holy Spirit with in. When you dress inappropriately, it’s not just you that you’re dressing, Christ is with and in you always.


  • Modest is hottest
  • Your body is not your own
  • Save the sexiness for your husband

“Likewise, also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control…” 1 Timothy 2:9

“But let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.” 1 Peter 3:4 (I LOVE this verse. Read it again.)

Blessings to you and yours,



Please read the following journal entries on dressing modestly:  http://soakinguptheson.com/2012/10/25/how-you-dress-says-a-lot/ http://soakinguptheson.com/2012/10/16/whose-design-are-you-wearing/ http://soakinguptheson.com/2015/11/03/how-do-i-dress-today/