If every marriage would just do as the bible instructs husbands and wives to live, our world’s divorce and spousal abuse rate would go down or actually be nonexistent.  Children will be at an advantage because their parents would be happier.  The world would be a much more pleasant place to live.
Ladies…respect your husband and he’ll show you some love!   Give him someone to love and cherish.
Men…love your wives and she’ll give you respect!  Give her someone she wants to respect.
Ephesians 5:21-33:
²¹ Be willing to serve each other out of respect for Christ.
²² Wives, be willing to serve your husbands the same as the Lord. ²³ A husband is the head of his wife, just as Christ is the head of the church. Christ is the Savior of the church, which is his body. ²⁴ The church serves under Christ, so it is the same with you wives. You should be willing to serve your husbands in everything.
²⁵ Husbands, love your wives the same as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. ²⁶ He died to make the church holy. He used the telling of the Good News to make the church clean by washing it with water. ²⁷ Christ died so that he could give the church to himself like a bride in all her beauty. He died so that the church could be holy and without fault, with no evil or sin or any other thing wrong in it.
²⁸ And husbands should love their wives like that. They should love their wives as they love their own bodies. The man who loves his wife loves himself,²⁹ because no one ever hates his own body, but feeds and takes care of it. And that is what Christ does for the church³⁰ because we are parts of his body.³¹ The Scriptures say, “That is why a man will leave his father and mother and join his wife, and the two people will become one.” ³² That secret truth is very important—I am talking about Christ and the church. ³³ But each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself. And a wife must respect her husband.
Just sayin’ what God’s sayin’…Love and Respect.
Blessings and God’s abundant love to all.
October 7